Ways and Tips to educate children in the family

Which parents do not want their children to be academically successful at school, we as parents will feel proud if our beloved child can be ranked first in his class, to the extent that we forget the limitations of children's abilities and force the child to study every day, press and even scolding if our children get bad grades, some parents do this because they are involved in competition between their parents and their success in educating their children to reach the first rank in school.
Continuing the previous article about newborn care, this time I will explore some tips for success in educating children in the family.

If we look at the reality that exists, not a few of the world's great people who actually have a record of mediocre academic achievement can even be said to be bad but they are successful in their fields, call it Albert Einstein, Charles Darwin or the owner of the world software giant Bill Gates, player world class golf Tiger Wood and many more. It turns out that academic achievement does not guarantee the success of a child in the future even though not infrequently academic achievement supports the child's career.

We all know that it is not IQ alone that can be used as a basis for supporting children's success but there are other intelligences that also have a great effect on a child's achievement, there is emotional intelligence (EQ: emotional quotient), social intelligence (social quotient) and more recently this is widely mentioned by people, namely spiritual quotient.

How to educate children in the family

Get to know your child's talents and interests
Give freedom for children to take part in extracurricular activities at school or at home, such as soccer, badminton, swimming, martial arts singing music, painting and so on. From this activity we can explore children's talents and interests.

Don't compare children
Each child has a different character, has advantages and disadvantages of each, there are children who are less in count but have advantages in language, we cannot compare with his brother who has good achievements in mathematics but is bad in art.

Teach children by example
We cannot force children to brush their teeth every bedtime if we ourselves as parents do not do that, invite children to pray five times a day by giving examples of praying, as well as honesty and good character.

Compact in educating children
If the mother tells her child to study, then the father does not allow his child to continue playing games. Mothers and mothers must have the same vision and mission in educating children.

Provide enough time with the child
Do not give time left for children, take the time to establish togetherness with children because it is the child's right to ask for time from their parents, do not allow children to choose another environment outside the family in expressing their luck because it is not impossible to get advice negative advice from the social environment.

Treat children positively
Never say anything negative to our child, for example: "Just like this stupid thing, you can't ...!" the words of parents are prayer, strive to respect children positively, praise and reward children if our children do good things because this will have a positive impact on the growth and development of children.

Children are gifts and deposits not a burden, treat children as individuals who have the same rights as other adults, do not force children to be something their parents want, do not pressure children to always get great academic value in mathematics when in fact our children have more skills in the arts of music and language. It is the obligation of parents to explore and optimize children's abilities according to their children's talents and interests.

Taken from various sources, hopefully useful.